Baby Dog Days

Next (Blog) Chapter

2007-08-17T04:59:00.000-10:00

Baby Dog Days may be ending soon. But like the evolution of life it will evolve into something else.

It's partly 'cause I want to try out Wordpress, but mostly because I thought being that the baby is not so much a "baby" anymore, it might be the start of a different chapter.

Speaking of chapters, I'm thinking about writing a book/guide...No, seriously. Ha, 'thinking' is the key word.

I've been more of a pessimist so long and have been thinking and trying to be more of an optimist so I don't know if I'll still be 'Angry'. Although MSO would think I still am.

So we'll see how things evolve. Book/Guide included.

Warning Alert: Polycarbonate Baby Bottles Containing BPA

2007-08-15T05:17:00.000-10:00

Just received a breaking news e-mail from the authors of Baby Bargains regarding the use of polycarbonate bottles made from a chemical called bisphenol A (BPA). Not good news considering we had used them for our child and I know others have used them as well.

If you don't want to read the whole e-mail content blurb below:

Link to an article that talks about the issue at hand can be found here.

Three examples of polycarbonate bottles containing BPA can be found here.

Examples of BPA-free bottles can be found here.

Stay away from bottles that have a #7 on their recycling label as they are most likely made of polycarbonate (and contain BPA). Damn, my Nalgene bottle has a friggen 7 on it! Although they say this. Sheesh, is anything safe in this world?

e-mail content blurb:

Baby Bargains book withdraws recommendation for certain plastic baby bottles

(BOULDER, CO) The authors of BABY BARGAINS, the country’s best-selling guide to baby products (700,000 copies in print), today called for parents to stop using baby bottles and sippy cups made of polycarbonate plastic.

Polycarbonate bottles are made from a chemical called bisphenol A (BPA). In an article in a peer-reviewed medical journal last week, a group of 38 scientists said BPA caused a significant health risk.

http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-na-plastic3aug03,0,1828523.story?coll=la-home-nation

Also last week, a federal panel convened by the National Institutes of Health said there is “some concern” the chemical could cause behavioral and neurological problems in young children.

Specifically, parents should stop using Avent’s Natural Feeding Bottle and Dr. Brown’s Natural Flow (or any bottle made of polycarbonate plastic)---these products were previously recommended by BABY BARGAINS.

“All baby bottles and sippy cups made of polycarbonate plastic should be avoided,” said author and consumer advocate Denise Fields. “If you are shopping for bottles, chose an alternative made from BPA-free plastic or glass. If you have polycarbonate bottles, throw them out.”

So, what is BPA? How is it harmful? See the FAQ below for answers.

Q. What the heck is BPA? Why is it dangerous?

Clear plastic baby bottles (as well as some food containers and water bottles) are made of polycarbonate, which contains a chemical called bisphenol A (BPA). It is the BPA that makes the hard, clear plastic bottles . . . well, hard and clear.

Here’s the rub: BPA’s chemical bond with polycarbonate breaks down over time—especially with repeated washings or heating of the bottle. As a result, BPA leaches out of the plastic bottle or sippy cup . . . and into the liquid (that is, breast milk or formula).

While most data on BPA comes from animal research, studies show even low-levels of BPA MAY be linked to everything from early puberty to breast cancer, to attention and developmental problems.

We wrote a detailed article on BPA and plastic baby bottles in our Baby 411 book. Click here to read it online on our web site:

http://www.windsorpeak.com/baby411/bpa.html

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Q. Do we really know that these bottles are dangerous to humans?

No, we don’t. There have been no human studies on BPA—so far, researchers have only found problems in animal research.

There is a split opinion here among scientists. The same federal panel that said it had “some concern” about behavioral and developmental problems in babies also stated that links to other ailments like birth defects and adult ailments were “negligible.” Of course, the plastics industry says BPA is completely safe.

That contrasts to the group of 38 scientists who last week called the health threat from BPA as “significant.”

But the fact the federal panel said there were “some concerns” for the health of babies tipped the balance for us.

As parents, we realize it can be hard to decide what to do when the debate is so heated. As always, our mantra is “show us the science.” We believe enough science is now in to recommend a change in course.

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Q. Isn’t it a bit alarmist to say stop using these bottles? When will we know for certain BPA is harmful to humans?

The truth is we won’t know for YEARS if there is a human health problem from BPA. And it could be YEARS more before the government decides to take some regulatory action.

We have consulted with pediatricians and other experts before making this decision. The consensus of these experts is: if concerns exist today (and that is backed up by reputable scientific research), then why not limit your baby’s exposure to this chemical?

Babies are especially at risk when it comes to exposure to harmful chemicals—that’s one thing we all can agree on.

The bottom line: we suggest stop using polycarbonate baby bottles and sippy cups NOW. Since there are quite a few BPA-free bottles on the market (see below), we believe this is an easy call for parents.

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Q. The Juvenile Products Manufacturer’s Association said plastic baby bottles are safe.

In a recent statement, the JPMA said the federal panel’s report on BPA “reaffirms the safety of plastic baby bottles.”

With all due respect to the fine folks at the JPMA, we’re not sure they were reading the same report we did. If they did, they would note this sentence: “The Expert Panel expressed SOME CONCERN that exposure to BPA causes neural and behavioral effects (emphasis added).”

Click here to read it:

http://cerhr.niehs.nih.gov/chemicals/bisphenol/draftBPA_MtgSumm080807.pdf

What part of “some concern” did the JPMA miss?

We realize you can argue that the panel didn’t call for the ban of products with BPA. But, that’s NOT what the panel was asked to do. It will now take years of debate among scientists, researchers and politicians as to the best course to take with BPA.

The JPMA does a good job at representing the manufacturers of baby products and lobbying the government on their behalf. But we would hardly call them unbiased experts on this subject. In fact, Avent (the U.S. largest seller of polycarbonate baby bottles) sits on the JPMA’s board of directors.

For the record, Avent told us they believe their bottles are safe and pose no heath threat to babies.

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Q. Which bottles should we NOT use? Which ones are BPA-free?

Polycarbonate baby bottles make up about 90% of the bottle market. The most common polycarbonate bottle are Avent’s Natural Feeding Bottle and Dr. Brown’s Natural Flow. But other major baby product companies like Playtex and Gerber also make polycarbonate bottles.

Click here to see pictures of polycarbonate bottles:

http://www.windsorpeak.com/babybargains/BPAbottles.html

Here are the alternatives that are BPA-free:

• Use glass bottles. Obviously, there is a risk of injury to baby or mom if the bottle is dropped, so glass isn’t a perfect alternative.

• Use bottles made of opaque plastic. These bottles (made of polyethylene or polypropylene) do not contain BPA.

• Consider a BPA-free plastic bottle. Born Free makes a BPA-free clear plastic bottle (Newbornfree.com) sold at Whole Foods. But these cost about $10 each, twice the price of Avent bottles.

• Use a drop-in system. For example the Playtex Drop-in System is BPA free (that is, the bottle liners do not contain BPA). Avent’s Tempo liners are another example.

We have pictures of these on our web page here:

http://www.windsorpeak.com/babybargains/BPAFREEbottles.html

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Q. Is there a way to tell if a bottle has BPA?

A. Unfortunately, it isn’t easy. Here’s a general guide:

BAD:
• Bottles that have a #7 on their recycling label most likely are made of polycarbonate (and contain BPA).

GOOD:
• Bottles that have a #2, #4 , #5 are made of polyethylene or polypropylene—these do NOT have BPA.

We call on the government to require disclosure of which bottles have BPA, so consumers can make an informed choice.

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Q. What about sippy cups? Breast pump collection bottles?

A. Basically, the same advice applies: avoid those made of polycarbonate plastic. Sippy cups made of opaque plastic are fine. Again, check the bottom of the cup for its recycling number (#7 should be avoided). For breast pump collection bottles, consider BPA-free bottles (such as those from Medela).

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Q. I just bought $50 worth of Avent bottles. Are you saying I should throw them out?

A. Yes. We know this in an inconvenience—but if you think about it, buying replacement bottles would run only $50 to $100. When it comes to safety, we think this is a worthwhile investment.

In the last printing of Baby Bargains, we realize that we recommended Avent and Dr. Brown’s polycarbonate bottles and said that polycarbonate bottles were safe. This was written before the release of the latest BPA study and federal panel report last week.

We have changed our recommendation on this subject based on new scientific evidence and the results of the federal panel discussed earlier. We will be revising our book in a new printing later this year to reflect this advice. We realize this is of little comfort to a reader who just bought $50 worth of Avent bottles and can’t return them—but we owe it to all readers to get the best and accurate advice out there as soon as it is available.

(Note: the advice in this update differs slightly from what we previous wrote in Baby 411 3rd edition. In that book, we said parents could still use polycarbonate bottles if they limited washings/heated drying, etc. Given the latest scientific evidence, we will revise that book to reflect the above advice to STOP using these bottles altogether.)

We will continue to blog about this subject. Check out our blogs here:

http://baby411.typepad.com/babybargains/
http://baby411.typepad.com/baby_411_blog/

Entitled Children

2007-08-14T05:23:00.000-10:00

In this Family Tree blog post, she writes about how a colleague of hers bought his 18-year-old(!) daughter a new SUV, and reflected on her past car ownership experiences.

I'll reflect and say that I was a bit spoiled (and still kind of am) because my mom did help me to purchase two cars (one used and one new) that I owned in the past, but I really like what one of the commentators said to this particular post:

My parents didn't buy me a new car when I got my license, they didn't buy me a new car when I graduated from high school or college. I was always lucky enough to borrow their car. When I finally bought my first car, it was an accomplishment, something I earned and could look back upon as having achieved on my own.

Though I envy the new SUV your friend bought his daughter, he hasn't taught her anything. He has deprived her the right to achieve a goal and take pride in her accomplishment. Hopefully, she's a good kid that won't grow up feeling entitled, that everything needs to be fair. As parents, we should teach our kids resiliency and relying upon their strengths, while recognizing their weaknesses. This is the best gift a parent can give their child...it will contribute to their personal growth and hopefully success in life.

I don't mean to rant, but sometimes in wanting to make our children's lives better than our childhoods, we prolong their dependency as our children and don't allow them to fully grow as adults. My daughter knows I love her and we are a close knit family. At her young age, she's won some well earned recognition from school for fundraising (all on her own) and donated some of her recycling money to the Hawaiian Humane Society. She may not have a Wii, but she has a big heart and a willingness to work hard for things she wants.
08/13/07 @ 16:48

It's somewhat difficult because we do want to make our children's lives better than ours, but my goal is to raise a child that doesn't feel entitled to such things as a brand new SUV and a Wii. Yes, the 18-year-old daughter might have "worked" for it somehow, but it does seem to subdue that willingness to work hard, sense of accomplishment, and especially personal growth.

But what do I know, I'm just a rookie parent.

Disaster Preparedness

2007-08-13T05:23:00.000-10:00

Per The Honolulu Advertiser, some tips on what to do follows. Are you prepared?

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In the event of any hurricane or natural disaster, all residents should make sure they have a disaster plan. Here are some disaster preparedness tips:

* Stay informed about the weather and keep in touch with family, friends and neighbors, especially the elderly and disabled.

* Where will we meet? What if children are at school, parents at work and otherwise scattered through daily activities? Plan a backup meeting place, someplace familiar to everyone.

* Consider an off-island telephone contact - a sister in Arizona or an auntie in Las Vegas - so that people here can call there to check in. During the Iniki aftermath on Kaua`i, people could call the Mainland but not across the street. That out-of-danger person can keep track of everyone and offer help and assurance.

Your evacuation plan

* Arrange transportation. Fill up gas tank.

* Plan a safe room. A bathroom, pantry or hallway with no windows or only a small window, where your family could stay safely sheltered through a storm.

* Develop a family plan.

* Plan for special needs. Have what you need to care for babies, family members taking medication, senior citizens and people with disabilities.

* Know how to shut off utilities: gas, water, electricity.

* Plan what to do with pets.

* Assemble supplies and have a carrying case nearby if you need to evacuate. You can buy a cheap duffel bag at a secondhand store or use a cooler or backpack. Each person in the family should have a kit.

* Have important family documents and small valuables where you can grab them.

* Store family photos and things you can't carry in a windowless room above flood risk levels.

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One site's recommendation for the contents of the 72-hour kits.

Here is a link to building
your family's 72-hour kits.

Link to Ready America or Ready Kids.

Hawaii State Civil Defense Disaster Preparedness Kit

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Suggestions for pets in times of emergency:

* Pet carriers or cages.

* Collars that fit, with ID tags and leashes

* One to two weeks of dry pet food

* Spill-resistant food and water bowls

* Unbreakable containers with a three-day water supply

* Kitty litter, newspapers, plastic bags and cleanser to take care of pet waste.

* Pet's special medications, if needed

Fewer Words With Baby Einstein?

2007-08-07T05:54:00.000-10:00

A new study is out about "Baby Einstein" and "Brainy Baby" video series, saying "[f]or every hour a day that babies 8 to 16 months old watched such popular video series as "Brainy Baby" or "Baby Einstein," they knew six to eight fewer words than other children."

Dr. Dimitri Christakis, a professor of pediatrics at the University of Washington in Seattle, and his colleagues surveyed 1,000 parents to determine their babies' vocabularies. They used a "standard set of 90 common baby words, including mommy, nose and choo-choo".

"The researchers found that 32% of the babies watched the videos, and 17% of those watched more than an hour a day, according to the study in the Journal of Pediatrics."

More than an hour a day?! Wow, that's a lot considering the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends NO television for children under 2.

"Christakis said children whose parents read to them or told them stories had bigger vocabularies."

Well MSO and I hope we're contributing to our child's growing vocabulary 'cause it has been somewhat difficult for us to give up TV.

We're Poor

2007-08-07T04:45:00.001-10:00

According to Paul Graham, "the poorer people are, the more stuff they seem to have." Or is it because our abode is so small it seems like we have so many things? Nah, we got too many stuff, including statements that date back to who knows when.

And unless you're extremely organized, a house full of stuff can be very depressing. A cluttered room saps one's spirits. One reason, obviously, is that there's less room for people in a room full of stuff. But there's more going on than that. I think humans constantly scan their environment to build a mental model of what's around them. And the harder a scene is to parse, the less energy you have left for conscious thoughts. A cluttered room is literally exhausting.

(This could explain why clutter doesn't seem to bother kids as much as adults. Kids are less perceptive. They build a coarser model of their surroundings, and this consumes less energy.)

Been trying to declutter 'cause it actually does cause me to feel like my spirits are sapped, depressed, and even exhausted. MSO can't understand why I get all frustrated when I see like five empty milk cartons around the sink that he's saving for his mother. Or why it's bothersome to see a desk chair in our child's room when all it's doing is holding his clothes. Yeah, I shouldn't sweat the small stuff but this explains it. =S

Recalled Toys

2007-08-02T12:26:00.000-10:00

Great post about the latest big recall of toys. Did you succumb to the marketers?

I'm Done

2007-07-30T05:38:00.000-10:00

It took about 2 days total to do it but I read all 759 pages of it. Could hardly put it down. Just wanted to keep reading and reading and reading. I think the Epilogue provided sort of a nice closure for me.

Don't read much books, but I find it pretty amazing when an author can hold your attention like I felt J.K. Rowling did. Guess I should read more books other than those involving barn animals, trains, and potty training.

Although he doesn't read my nonsense, MSO deserves some credit for taking care of a lot of stuff so that I was able to read it though.

Homestyle Breakfast

2007-07-30T04:57:00.000-10:00

We wanted to go somewhere for either breakfast or brunch, and being that I had already spent some bucks on MSO's GPS, decided for a nice simple breakfast rather than an elaborate buffet.

Using the Honolulu Advertiser's 2006-2007 Hawai`i's Best Restaurant's guide and on the suggestion of my sister since she went there before, we decided on Boots & Kimo's Homestyle Kitchen.

Lots of people there already and it got even more crowded after we were done. But they've got a pretty good system going where you sign in first, decide what you want from the menu you take outside, and then place your order with one of the workers when she/he comes outside. Our wait for the food was minimal once we got seated. This is not a place where you're too comfortable just sitting and relaxing after eating though. More a get in, eat, and get out place due to the number of customers.

To be closing soon too.

Anyone a Broncos fan?

You'll love looking at all the memorabilia inside then.

Ah, finally. The good stuff that you come to this place for. Makes the wait all worth it. This is the Short Stack Macadamia Nut Pancakes.

And the real kind of hash. Mmm, mmm! Something about breakfast in Kailua...

No Criminals in Professional Sports?

2007-07-26T05:26:00.000-10:00

With news talk about Michael Vick and the dogfighting charges, for me, it once again prompted the thought of what professional sports would be like without criminals or those accused of crimes.

What if the professional sports world had a no tolerance policy for gross violations of law? Boy, that would eliminate some of the most marketable stars wouldn't it?

In Michael Vick's case, I say 'Kick Vick' too. Innocent until proven guilty, however, to even be involved with such preposterousness is irresponsible. And what's in that 'Personal Conduct Policy'? Vague or worded like a government-issued instructional document?

Bottom line. These professional athletes are role models, in the spotlight, and should be responsible and law-abiding. Yes, they are human too and there is a lot of pressure on a daily basis. But, that's part of the job and they are getting paid millions of dollars for doing what they love. Many should not forget where they came from and what they didn't have before their glory.

AARP

2007-07-25T12:58:00.000-10:00

My mom gets their magazine and we were wondering what AARP stands for. Do you know? The magazine didn't appear to give us a clue other than it has something to do with older people. Try going here and see how long it takes you to discover what it stands for.

Or, if you really want to just know, go here.

Puzzling

2007-07-21T09:49:00.000-10:00

Have you ever noticed how some people change when they get new things - a new car, a new house, a new neighborhood, a new job, a new whatever, or come into more money? It's almost as if they're a completely different person.

Someone that you've had conversations with, had meals with, etc., will now barely give you the time of day. You're just a passerby. It's almost as if they realized something - maybe you're not smart enough, not fun enough, not...something. You have nothing to bring to the table so to speak. A distant memory that's been filed away for good.

It may be the imagination of the person noticing but probably not. It just seems unfortunate and sad that some people forget.

Butt Head Observations

2007-07-18T12:11:00.000-10:00

I'm on a blog posting roll today. In a previous post, I vented about inconsiderate, ignorant, foolish people that smoke around children. Well, here's one of those (fill-in-the-blank) people. You may not be able to see it but the woman has a cancer stick there lodged between two of those stink, discolored right fingers. Puffing away right next to this little girl who will probably end up smoking in her adult life.

Here's another butt head that threw his cigarette out the window. Another cigarette-related peeve I have is when smokers throw their cigarette butts out the window when driving as if the island is their big ashtray. I may not be too smart but don't most cars come with ashtrays or is that another option that you have to pay for?

iMac-iTunes Woes

2007-07-18T05:45:00.000-10:00

WTF is going on?! The problem with our Internet connection returned a few weeks ago and I've unfortunately been using someone else's connection since. Now I got issues with iTunes and not able to play my own damn music that I PAID for!!!

In the midst of changing my playlist on my Shuffle, I clicked on a song (that was purchased through iTunes) and got prompted to enter my username and password. After doing so, because I'm supposedly not authorized to listen and copy my own music, I then get this stinkin' error:

We could not complete your iTunes store request. An unknown error occurred (-50).

Tried a couple more songs that I had purchased. Same thing. And this is not the first time that I've had this happen to me. The issue seemed to go away after iTunes was upgraded to 7.3(?) but now seems to be back. Guess I have to try some troubleshooting steps I had gathered through research the first time. Crap.

Single Parents Recognition

2007-07-18T05:00:00.000-10:00

Do you know any single parents of toddler-aged children who get little, if any, help from their family or friends and manage to keep sane? If you do, it's time to give them a big hug, bow, or whatever to recognize that they are truly amazing people.

I'm surely not one of those amazing people but have been managing to keep it together thus far after just about losing it last week. To the rescue as usual comes my family and in-laws. So grateful...

With free tickets (Thanks to Ms. B!) in hand, my sis and I went to see the latest Harry Potter movie at the Ward 16 Theatre. What surely wasn't free or cheap was the food and damn water that we purchased. A little over $20!!! We didn't think ahead to sneak in stuff but of course should've.

Noticed it before but haven't been to the movies in a LONG time so it sort of amazed me again that this looked like this. Or maybe it was just having to wait at nine in the morning to get into a movie.

Almost as amazing was that I didn't know these ticket machines existed. You can purchase movie tickets online too? I think the last movie I seen in the theater might've been the last Harry Potter movie. Is that right?! Sheesh.

The Countdown Begins

2007-07-10T12:03:00.000-10:00

Haven't heard the official word from DY yet but it's almost certain a new project will be lookin' for me. T Land can no longer afford me. Mind you, labor costs and my (so-called) skills definitely don't correspond so they really are overpaying for what I'm capable of...which is not much. Aren't those weekly reports trivial? Damn, looks like I'm in trouble now.

Just dislike the feeling of having to basically start all over. The anxiety of a variety of things - who, what, where. It's probably just me that feels this way though, and I'm coming to a diagnosis that I may have a combination of generalized anxiety disorder and social anxiety disorder. Who, what, where, when, and how? I don't know but we'll just have to wait and see...The comfort zone is crumbling as the countdown is proceeding.

Wanted: Portable GPS

2007-07-06T05:24:00.000-10:00

Not sure if the old one we had even works but I'm lookin' for a new portable GPS for MSO. Since the old one is also outdated and he's been travelin' a lot lately (leaving me stranded to take care of our children), thought I'd look to get him (and me) one. Didn't have a chance to peruse the great vast Internet for reviews or anything but anyone got suggestions/recommendations on what brand and/or model are good ones? Garmin? Magellan? Anyone? Anyone?

Happy 4th!

2007-07-05T00:12:00.000-10:00

After our child's four(!) hour nap, we made our way to Mililani to visit good friends and saw some memorable sights in their very nice neighborhood. Have you ever seen anyone cook out right next to their mailbox? Don't think I've recalled such.

Never seen a Lhasa Apso like this before either. He was a good dog that endured some "playing" by our child.

We then made our way back home to pick up some dinner and the dog to go watch the fireworks from a surprisingly quite pleasant spot. See the cars looking for parking and fighting the crowd? Wasn't us!

Here we go...People actually stopped in that parking lot and got out of their cars to watch the fireworks.

A helicopter kept flying around with its spotlight.

Part of the finale...Happy 4th!

A Move In The Right Direction...

2007-06-20T05:26:00.000-10:00

That is the motto of Envirosax and their philosophy is to "help create a better future for our planet by spreading the environmental message through colour and script using the Envirosax® eco-friendly reusable bag as the vehicle".

So I jumped on the bandwagon to try and make our future planet better by purchasing their Flora collection. We were bringing home a lot of plastic bags from grocery shopping and I keep thinking about the various pushes for reduction of plastic bags, whether it's in media form (TV, radio) or lectures about pollution prevention. Did you know plastic bags are made out of petroleum?

I looked to purchase those plain canvas bags to utilize for shopping but they were just not fashionable...Kidding...Okay, maybe not kidding that much. But anyways, I stumbled upon the Envirosax bags and thought they were nice eco-friendly, reusable bags that are pretty strong and can hold quite a bit. You can even get a small bag credit at Safeway (That will eventually add up to the cost of the reusable bags way down the line)!

Go Green! Now I just need a hybrid version of my vehicle. ;)

Here are some tidbits and links to advocate pollution prevention, water and energy conservation:
* Most cost-effective form of environmental protection is pollution prevention as it eliminates or reduces wastes at the source of generation.
* Reduce, reuse, recycle and re-buy (Buy recycled content products).
* Choose service providers who also promote waste reduction (Green businesses).
* Check for leaks and repair right away.
* Energy saving tips online:
- Hawaiian Electric Company (HECO) - http://www.heco.com
- Hawaii Department of Business, Economic Development & Tourism - http://www.hawaii.gov/dbedt/info/energy/efficiency
* Hawaii Department of Health, Solid and Hazardous Waste Branch - http://www.hawaii.gov/health/environmental/waste/sw/wastemin.html
* City & County of Honolulu, Department of Environmental Services - http://www.opala.org
* Western Regional Pollution Prevention Network - http://www.wrppn.org
* Household Products Database - http://householdproducts.nlm.nih.gov/

Shout-Out To Gee

2007-06-13T12:32:00.000-10:00

After many days of sad thoughts that I had to actually utilize other people's wireless networks to access the Internet (and possibly have to spend money to get the baby fixed), tried the Option-Command-P-R until I heard the beeps as recommended by Gee Why last week. Still no recognition of the built-in network card on the iMac, and thereby still no Internet connection (except the free wireless). However, I realized I didn't have the network cable plugged in (Duh!), so plugged it in and then tried again. It worked! Thank you very much!!! I'm no longer sad because, you know, using other people's wireless connection is just so wrong.

Flying Inflatable Bouncers

2007-06-11T05:35:00.000-10:00

Wow. Just talkin' about lovin' bouncers here and here along with candid memories involving adult men doing flips or trying to do flips, and almost "breaking [themselves] in half" (you know who you are), this article came out about an incident that happened on Saturday, and about possible regulation of those things. Scaaary. Be careful.

Some Parent Favorites

2007-06-01T05:13:00.000-10:00

There was a post in the Hawaii Moms forum about Moms' Favorites, but we're all about equal opportunity to speak your mind here so let's also hear from the dads. List your favorites. Here are my/our current ones, with comments of course. They'll probably change in months, years

Favorite Baby Store: Baby Emporium (No big compaints yet)
Favorite Kids' Clothing Store: Carter's (Cute but pretty inexpensive)
Favorite Toy Store: Thinker Toys (Interesting toys; We also get toys from other stores)
Favorite Restaurant to Take the Kids: Big City Diner (They gave balloons)
Favorite Family Attraction: MSO (Just kidding!)
Favorite Free Activity: Playground (Obon season is underway; Almost anything free is a favorite right?)
Favorite Mall: Ala Moana Center (Although the damn layout is frustrating, don't they have the most stores?)
Favorite Beach: None (Still wary of the sewage spill and just haven't made the effort to go)
Favorite Park: Neighborhood park (Should be plural - parks - as they're all fun, except with smokers around)
Favorite Birthday Cake Bakery: ~~Costco (But Liliha is sounding good)~~ Shortgirl (& Co.) =)
Favorite Birthday Party Activity: Bouncer (Just don't constantly watch the children bounce 'cause it can actually make you feel nauseous)

Random Introspection

2007-05-31T05:27:00.000-10:00

* Having a sick child in the household has got to be one of the worst things ever!

* Hope MSO doesn't have a pinched nerve.

* Gosh, when did we last wash the dog?

* I got to make a check up appointment for the dog.

* Heard the same song on the way to work that I heard yesterday on the way home at almost the same location.

* Someone must've burned their popcorn.

* How many more years of work to go?!

* Wayne's World really needs an intervention.

* What month is this already?!

* I'm liking my Mio watch so far.

* How's Phoebe doing?

* I need a car wash.

* Sorry to Shortgirl for the missed phone message.

* Great additions on the way for Gee Why.

* Sympathy sentiments to Tabasco Man.

Whole Foods Market To Open

2007-05-30T05:34:00.000-10:00

It was sad for some to see the closing of Star Market at Kahala Mall, but time marches on and we'll see the opening of Whole Foods Market at that vacant location. I'm interested to see what Whole Foods has to offer, partly because I always see famous people shopping there while perusing the entertainment news. LOL

I hope the statement that says they have "a reputation for supporting local farmers" is true. On the other hand, they will give the "smaller natural foods stores" here some competition. Those smaller natural foods stores better work on their customer service if they want to maintain their market share (from me).

Momergency Kit

2007-05-29T12:00:00.000-10:00

Gee Why asked me if I had this little gem of a kit (Thanks!) that's supposed to rescue you from the travails of your curious and/or defiant toddler, the bothersome extra piece of material that you get free with various shirt purchases, and the all too wonderfully timed malfunctioning of child gear on hand. I actually don't have it but MSO can argue that my bag, aka purse, heavy piece of Mommy equipment, etc., will give this kit some competition.

One item that I almost always carry around with me, sometimes when I don't even have our child in tow, is what's pictured. It has become somewhat handy when going shopping solo with our child. Looking at the list of items that comprise the Momergency Kit, I count 7 items that I'm packin'. Dice with instructions for dice games?! Yeah, go ahead and teach your kids while they're young how to get the bones rollin'. Yikes.

What are things you can never be without when you’ve got your kid(s) in tow?

Miss Drunken Independent But True

2007-05-17T05:05:00.000-10:00

Although Kelly Clarkson was recorded in a drunken spell, I gotta say she is true. True in the sense that she does what she does because she wants to do what she does. True in the sense that she stood up to challenge Clive Davis, but will get her album released next month as she intended, although later than anticipated. True in the sense that she wrote on all 14 songs on that album which sounds like it's filled with a lot of angst, pain, and sadness. What I really like and can relate to her is that she favors musicians who can tell a story through their music, though they may not have written their own music. She mentions Melissa Etheridge, Bono, and Reba.

For me, some of my favorite artists that can "tell a story" are Sarah McLachlan, Tori Amos, Alanis Morissette, Eminem, among others, and they write their own music. Come to think of it, I've always looked at the credits to see if the artist wrote the songs on that particular album. So, I'll be making that My December purchase when the time comes. Hey, a lot of people get drunk and get recorded in that drunken state at some point in their lives. MSO is a ~~good~~ bad example. I won't chastise her for it. Standing ovation for Kelly!

I Must Not Be A Mother

2007-05-14T05:04:00.000-10:00

Either MSO did not get the memo that it was Mother's Day yesterday or I must be that bad to not get a card or even a "Happy Mother's Day"...for the second time in my motherhood of a life. Lifehacker has a post about giving your mom the gift of self-care. Did I get any of that? Nope. No day off from any kind of responsibilities for me. Washed, hung, and threw in the dryer about four loads of laundry among other household things without having a chance to relax and take care of myself. What's the gift of time?! In MSO's eyes, moms must not do a lot of work and need any type of pampering to be recognized on even the second Sunday of May...But he can tell you what teams are leading their respective series in the NBA playoffs. I'm so lucky!

Retreat, The Pool, And Farewell

2007-05-14T04:39:00.000-10:00

Made my way to another stamp retreat and it was fun, fun, fun! Would never have thought at my age I'd be stampin', yet go to a retreat with a bunch of other (older) people. But there I was and here I am with all my stamp accoutrements, almost addicted, creating stuff I hope people appreciate.

You pay a flat fee upfront but all the supplies are provided. Walking away with the finished products and with the many ideas to add to your repertoire is priceless for me. Door prizes are also given away. I won a folder full of idea sheets. Thought about becoming a demonstrator but time was a concern and I wanted to put the time and effort into being there for my family and enjoying that.

And this weekend we did that with some friends at the pool.

On my way to the destination, I encountered this but could not show any drivers my mad waving skills as there was no flag to wave. Bummer.

It was a nice, sunny, and hot day. We hope everyone enjoyed themselves. A lot of thanks to CL for allowing us to bask atop (sort of) the Tower.

No time for much relaxing before we made our way to the Waikiki Beach Walk to go to Holokai Grill to get some chow. The Grilled Vegetable Penne with Seared Ahi was good.

Got a taste of the Kaimana Mango Mojito, and that was good. KeM appeared to enjoy (His) Banana Hammock and its "special surprise". ;) Don't think the female diner on the other table enjoyed her surprise of finding out she left the price tag on the dress she was wearing. (Couldn't get a picture to post.)

Next it was onward to Yard House. "Yard House features a transparent keg room containing more than 600 barrels, and a signature island bar displaying a fleet of tap handles with over 130 varieties of ice cold draft beer."

Yeah, over 130 varieties and what does MSO get first? A Bud Light.

First thought when I got in there was loud and crowded. Must be getting old and even more boring. Thought the architecture with the keg room was cool. Going to the restroom with the booth seating was a little challenging.

Hmmm, so many choices with no indication of prices. Drink up!

Check out the Beer Facts. I think Wayne's World might be taking Beer Fact 1 to heart based on his posts here and here.

The Six Pack Sampler sampled by SDC.

My choice of the night was Slo Blueberry Ale. Not many would like fruity with their beeah but I liked it.

Here's to you, LS! Farewell and see you when you get back or when we see you there...

Industrial Fallout

2007-05-03T05:32:00.000-10:00

Was talking with Super K and he mentioned that a fallout is occurring from the construction of none other than Keola La`i. Super K started noticing his wife's car, although not a new car, is rusting. He further surmised that something had gone amiss when conversing with a guy who mentioned his wife's car is parked in the same area during the day and her BMW(!) is also rusting. This is three blocks away! Yes, three blocks away. Boy, oh boy.

Apparently this has been a complaint in numbers. Super K, after talking with a few people and getting in touch with their construction office, was able to easily arrange a visit to have his wife's car evaluated in order to resolve the issue. No hassles, no runarounds. What a surprise. Still, I'd be pissed if that happened to my vehicle. And imagine people just walking around that area! You gotta use some type of mask. As much as possible keep away from areas where all those (money-draining) condos are being built.

Tooth Decay Rising

2007-04-30T12:36:00.000-10:00

Reading the news can be very informative but yet so disturbing. That's why I tend to read fun and uplifting stories. Same goes for movies - comedy, action, happy ending-type movies are preferred. How does this tie in to tooth decay? It's because tooth decay is on the rise due to preschoolers (!) eating too much sugar in the form of processed snack foods, fruit snacks, juice boxes, candy, and soda!

Now don't get me wrong, there are many other news pieces that are waaay more disturbing but a rise in preschoolers with tooth decay?! That's important stuff! You only have one set of teeth that's supposed to last you to the grave. Yeah, there are alternatives but how gross is that.

"Parents should begin bringing their children to the dentist at age 1." Age 1 huh? Dentists must have some patience with their patients. =S
"Parents also must help their young children brush properly." Adults can barely brush properly. (Can we say electric toothbrushes?)

Addicted To Blogging?

2007-04-30T12:20:00.000-10:00

In response to Gee Why's post about blog addict signs...

Bloglines, Google Reader or some other RSS reader is constantly open on your computer's desktop. Trying out Google Reader...

You tell customers that you missed a project deadline because "some things" came up but in reality, you were blogging. Missed project deadlines? Not yet...

You periodically dream that you are blogging. Can't say I've done this but I did have a dream (or nightmare) about missing an exam. Major panic, and I'm not even going to school!

You get inspiration for new blog posts at the strangest times - in the Jacuzzi, sitting on the toilet, during marital activities (cough, cough)... you get the picture. Guilty of being inspired during the "strangest times" and just in everyday life situations with baby, the dog, and MSO (not during THAT marital activity!).

Before blogs, you used to tuck the kids into bed at night. Now you check for unapproved blog comments before heading to bed yourself. No time and no energy before our child's bedtime which could also be considered my bedtime.

In order for your family to keep up with what's going on in your life, they have to read your blog. Furthermore, if they want to communicate with you, they have to comment on your blog. Guess my family doesn't have time to read my nonsense.

You have actually considered setting up a blog for your pet of which you would post the entries pretending you are your pet (weirdo). Weirdo?!

You can't remember dates for your wedding anniversary, kids birthdays, etc., but you know what your Technorati rank is. Can't remember a lot of things now (blame motherhood), and didn't know it before but looks like Baby Dog Days got a rank of 1,077,900. Whoo hoo!

You blog about anything and everything including bad meals, your pets, getting your car stuck in snow, conversations you have in the bathroom, etc. Uh duh...Definition of 'blog' courtesy of Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary:
Main Entry: blog
Pronunciation: 'blog, 'bläg
Function: noun
Etymology: short for Weblog
: a Web site that contains an online personal journal with reflections, comments, and often hyperlinks provided by the writer

Keeping a blog is no longer enough but you now have to record your every move on Twitter. Kind of like kittycaht (that doesn't know how to spell cat) recording her packing of a suitcase to go on her New York trip. Oooh myyy goodness.

...So am I a blog addict? Nah!

Island Life Tidbits

2007-04-30T05:41:00.000-10:00

Do your part for environment: Don't wash clean clothes

Liberate yourself from the laundry, recommends Joanna Yarrow in "1001 Ways to Save the Earth." Yes, detergent ads push for washing clothes after every wearing, but sometimes, that's not necessary. "That's not to say you should wait until they can walk to the washing machine by themselves," she writes, "but don't launder them until they're actually dirty." That saves the environment and extends the life of your clothes. (A rule of thumb: Give them the sniff-and-stain test, checking for odor or spots. If they pass, separate them from the dirty clothes and hang them up immediately.)

Geezerhood creeping up on you? "1,003 Ways to Stay Young" offers these tips:

# Throw away your flowered bathing cap.

# Never use a three-way mirror again.

# Never admit you don't know how to use your iPod.

Final Word

"Once we cross 10 billion gallons (of cellulosic ethanol) there is no question in my mind we will be below $1 a gallon."

Vinod Khosla | co-founder of Sun Micro-systems who is building three factories to produce cellulosic ethanol fuel made from biomass, in Men's Journal.

Bring Back RHS Memories?

2007-04-30T05:37:00.000-10:00

Lost $585!

2007-04-27T13:00:00.000-10:00

Well, never really had it...None of my partners could manage a mere 198 with handicap...So sad.

Yay For The Institute of Medicine!

2007-04-26T12:41:00.000-10:00

Reasons Celebrities Make Lousy Parents

2007-04-26T12:15:00.000-10:00

According to Helen A.S. Popkin, MSNBC contributor, these are the top 10 reasons why celebrities shouldn't have kids. It's funny writing but at the same time it's sad 'cause you have to realize that these are actual parents and kids with actual feelings that get so magnified via the paparazzi and media.

1. Innate inability to distinguish between healthy parent-child communication and “Glengarry Glen Ross.” The verbal abuse received by most kids isn’t nearly as eloquent as that now infamous (and well-annunciated) rant Alec Baldwin deposited on his 11-year-old (or 12-year-old, he doesn't seem sure) daughter’s voice mail...

2. Amicable divorces even creepier than those that go DEFCON 1. Yes, yes, a decade-plus of well-publicized avarice among Baldwin and Basinger is shameful, ugly and undoubtedly damaging to their only child...

3. Inability to choose appropriate stepparents. Uncle Ashton indeed!...

4. Insistence on wrecking soccer games for everyone. Who’s going to pay attention to little Isabelle or Connor Kidman-Cruise kicking a goal, when you can gawk at the paparazzi gawking at...

5. Don’t allow biological children nearly as much press as those Third World kids Mommy and Daddy keep adopting. It’s bad enough when rich-and-famous moms, dads or both force real-world values by making their kids do chores and throwing away toys left out of the toy box...

6. Can’t find child-size Louis Vuitton dog carriers. Teacup Chihuahua breeders would do well to take note of People magazine’s popular “baby bump” issues...

7. Safety schmafety! Though it seems obvious to us regular folk, you don’t dangle babies from balconies (Michael Jackson) or...

8. The whole naming thing. This point is obvious and overplayed. Yet celebrities still don’t get it. Nobody’s getting a Golden Globe for...

9. Even more reality shows. If celebrities aren’t willing to put children first, at least they should consider their fans. Screwed-up celebrity children...

10. No wire hangers. Ever. We don’t want to read their tell-all memoirs either.

Hey, these reasons are not according to me. I think it is rather difficult for them to always be under the radar so to speak but at the same time it's not impossible to be a loving, sensible, and present parent too. They have such a tough life. (Sarcasm intended)

Pet Peeve Web Site

2007-04-23T05:10:00.000-10:00

Saw this article today via The Honolulu Advertiser and it made me think what my pet peeves are. Alright, I know I've mentioned some here, here, here, and here in the past but could I possibly have more? Although I try not to sweat the small stuff, I indeed do have more. And you probably got at least one too. As the article and the Web site says, "just about everybody out there had a pet peeve." If you feel like sharing, what are some of yours?

Farewell...

2007-04-19T05:32:00.000-10:00

Killjoy for Parents Kids

2007-04-18T12:36:00.000-10:00

Much of my childhood memories are unfortunately suppressed so I can't say for sure whether I would tear open a toy when receiving it, but I gotta say, the way toys are packaged today is just downright brutal for ~~parents~~ kids.

For a child, all he/she sees is the toy in its nicely wrapped, marketing focused package, and he/she focuses on getting to that toy to start playing with no matter what. But all the parent sees are these damn tightly twisted wraps to hold the object of their child's current affection.

I had been untying these wraps nicely to save them for MSO who requested they be kept for "later use" (gets that from his father), but I'm fed up. Fed up with having my our child's enthusiasm muted by these evil things, and with having so many of them around to remind us what tribulations we went through. I will now resort to using our delicate but hefty scissors carefully crafted in one of the world's oldest civilizations.

Happy 3rd Birthday!

2007-04-17T05:27:00.000-10:00

How Do SOs Feel?

2007-04-17T00:18:00.000-10:00

With the NNO discussion, it got me thinking about how SOs, male SOs, feel about their female SOs going to a gentlemen's club or the like. Do they feel joyfully delighted that we're expanding our horizons to seek and experience the wondrous place that is a gentlemen's club or do they feel like we're invading their place of escape, fantasy, or utopia? Men, come on and share your opinions...

Sweet Treats

2007-04-10T12:58:00.000-10:00

As usual I wanted to try and be creative (without realizing the total level of effort until I actually start the project), and this time it was for Easter. After cutting about 20 bunny heads and 20 chicks in addition to a lot of other cutting, this is the mediocre result. Wanted to add some pom pom tails and other things to their pasture, but as a mother of young'un that can be challenging.

And in spite of my level of effort to try and eat healthier, I tried this darn treat of goodness from Kamehameha Bakery. Not sure what it's called but it's like a taro malasada with a little too much glaze (and oil, fat, etc.)

Subsequent to some searching, found this information about the bakery. Look at those hours.

Kamehameha Bakery Inc
Telephone: 808.845.5831
1339 N School Street
Kalihi, HI 96817

Has anyone been there or tried their famous haupia doughnuts? Heard they can make "nasty" cakes too. But that's another topic altogether...

Lifehacker Lover

2007-04-09T05:47:00.000-10:00

Does anyone else think this is a wondrous site? It's filled with all types of goodies that help you, well, "geek to live" as they say.

One of today's posts, Learn the finer points of puncuation, contained a link to this article about "10 flagrant grammar mistakes". I know I've been guilty of some of these but this is a big pet peeve that you probably see on a daily basis. So take note the correct ways 'cause you don't want to look stupid, do you? Go ahead and share others that you have encountered.

Another post that we just may have to try out in our cabinets involves 2x4s. Cheaper than purchsing those slide out types of baskets that we were looking to get. The clutter of cans can be overwhelming, especially when you keep buying something that you already have at the back of the cabinet. Makes you almost want to create a spreadsheet using Docs & Spreadsheets to keep track of the cabinet's contents. =)

I'll now get my overload of cuteness to help me through the week...

The End Of 2007?

2007-04-05T12:37:00.000-10:00

Been waiting and waiting for OpenOffice Aqua but now it appears only a beta version may be available at the end of 2007. Really don't want to make someone richer by purchasing his well-known version. Not like a few hundred is anything significant for him...Damn change he'll probably find laying around. Guess I'll utilize Google's Docs & Spreadsheets or the like until then (or even beyond) perhaps. Apple's Mail program has been good enough and I don't have a pure urgency to utilize an office suite now that I'm out of school, validating the reason why I don't want to spend money on one.

Docs & Spreadsheets did come in handy though this past weekend. I was too lazy to set up my ancient Sony Vaio to modify a Word document that I needed to modify, print and mail so I decided to try the utility. Not the most sophisticated tool by far but it served its purpose. Of course there's always this and that that I've just found out about.

Maybe Down To Earth

2007-04-04T05:02:00.000-10:00

Made my way to the Pearlridge Down To Earth store yesterday and as soon as I walked into the door I could just smell the healthiness. Or maybe it was all that aromatherapy crap by the door. It's a rather small store with rather small and short aisles. One small annoyance is that it felt as though I was constantly moving out of the way for their employees who were in numbers. Everywhere I turned there was an employee. Whether restocking, helping a customer, or just standing there, one was unfortunately where I wanted to be.

Another small annoyance was that one of the employees asked me if I needed help looking for something. I politely informed him that I didn't need help and that I was just looking. His reply of "Okaay." rubbed me the wrong way as it implied that I should be asking for his help and that I was missing out on his grandiose, exceptional knowledge of the health and beauty products we were surrounded by. Whatever.

Then, I finally head to the cashier with my basket full of organic and no-meat products only to be rung up by a multitasking employee, eating chips from a container right next to the register (Yuck, touching dirty $$$!), answering every call that comes in and transferring those calls, and looking closely at the products to see where the barcodes are in order to ring them up thus taking longer. (Maybe he's new or maybe he just can't remember where barcodes are on the products that he constantly rings up.)

Oh, and to finish off the transaction, he doesn't even hand me my receipt. It's left on the counter for me to pick up myself! Guess I should be appreciative that he wished me a nice evening. Not!

I just left there feeling like what the hell just happened. I also thought of another store that I could go to for the type of products that they sell and I came across a possible meaty alternative to Down To Earth. We'll see.

Goodie Bags Not So Good For You?

2007-04-03T12:16:00.000-10:00

As a parent I often ponder what goes through the minds of other parents when they select items that they give away in the form of goodie bags to other students in their child's class or friends at day care. I've come across a lot of items in our child's goodie bags that aren't necessarily age appropriate or nutritional a lot of times. Of course being a parent it behooves you to monitor what you give your child and such but it does make you think.

Is it because it's cheap? Is it because it's easy? In my own experience as a boring and conservative parent, I rack my brains trying to figure out what would be age appropriate, useful, educational, and/or nutritional to put in goodie bags. I can just see it now, the child that opens such a bag, and then tosses it aside 'cause it's not filled with fun, bad treasures like noisemakers or candy.

So I ask you parents (and non-parents) out there, what have you seen in goodie bags (or not in goodie bags such as snacks, etc.) that you really thought were great things to give children in their toddler and older years?

Try To Raise A Money-Smart Child

2007-03-29T12:04:00.000-10:00

The article suggests five ways to teach your children about money:

1. Don't say "We can't afford it"

- Show your child that you are not controlled by your cash flow (or lack thereof)
- Children should understand they have a choice about how to use money
- Teach your child about spending, saving, and making good money choices by giving your child spending money when he/she is as young as 3 (50 cents a week per year of your child's age ($2 a week for a 4-year-old, for instance))
- Help your child develop a simple plan for his allowance

2. Show them the money

- Most children under 7 won't make the connection between the credit card and your ability to pay the bill so use cash for some of the routine purchases when your child's along, and count out those dollahs
- At the same time you need to talk to your children about being smart with credit/debit cards and show them how the money goes poof

3. Talk about how much things cost

- Children should be familiarized with prices and how their mommy and daddy's paychecks are spent
- Don't talk about your child's costing money, as in "Paying for your school clothes made us go over our budget."

4. Buy something that isn't on your list

- Impulse purchases do not make you a bad parent (Whew! I make them all the time.)
- You should explain to your child that the impulse purchase was purchased with the money set aside to freely spend with
- Your child should see the flexibility and enjoyment when you spend what you've earned "because being smart about money doesn't just mean knowing how to budget and save -- it also means being able to spend wisely."

5. Be open with your spouse

- Hidden purchases from their partners? Spend too much? No!
- It's not good for children to see distrust and/or secrecy between parents
- Moms tend to make purchases of clothes and activities for the children and dads may not know how expensive they can be...Got that right.

Okay, now I'm a little perturbed that I spent too much dollahs on stuff this past weekend although it wasn't an impulse purchase. Gonna have to make me a budget. Sigh...

Bring Back Memories?

2007-03-23T12:35:00.000-10:00

On a not so blue sky day, there was a man who was driving home from work in his parents' car. The scandalous reason for driving this car was because the car owned by the man is out of service while he unfortunately attempts to repair it himself.

Little did he know that as he drove near the Fort Shafter exit, the hood of the car would whoosh up, hit and crack the windshield, scaring him out of his wits.

The man had to squeeze his ass while he waited for his angry significant other to pick him up because he was squeezed on the left side of the east-bound lanes where there is no shoulder lane. With cars whizzing by the man was hopeful that no one would hit him from behind on an almost blind turn. To the rescue first comes a police officer to guide him to the right side where there is a shoulder lane. It was a good thing there was no traffic.

Finally, the man's angry significant other arrives and he trudges to her luxurious (but dirty) vehicle carrying his belongings with a very melancholy face. He expresses his fears of these all too unforgettable moments while she foolishly (so he thinks) captures some of these moments on digital media. Her retort is that she's there for him and the end result is that he's physically okay.

And the man was okay as he begins to recount how one day in his past fun outings with Mr. Two Heart (RDC), the hood of a car had also flew open. Ah, the good ole days, huh?

Ala Moana Petland To Close

2007-03-23T05:35:00.000-10:00

Haven't gone there much but this must bring back some memories for some...

Multipurpose Painter's Tape

2007-03-22T05:46:00.000-10:00

In an everlasting attempt to get MSO to multitask, we've enlisted the temporary (I hope!) help of some painter's tape to hold up what we hope will help. Say that fast three times! This is our new 60-day dry-erase planner to keep track of all the appointments, deadlines, classes, etc. that will just increase as time goes on.

And what great coincidence it is that Gee Why directed me to this Lifehacker post about how to resourcefully use some painter's tape to babyproof a hotel room. Painter's tape is awesome! So awesome that it still remains on a light fixture as part of the decor in the bedroom.

Caterator's Blog

2007-03-21T12:10:00.000-10:00

The other day I finished reading mostly all of Catherine E. Toth's (Do I hear some RHS love?) posts on her blog, The Daily Dish. I never read her blog before but due to the adoring talk about her blog here, decided to check what the (guy) hype is all about. I gotta say that I enjoyed reading her posts as well. Couldn't follow with most of the ones about the TV shows (She does watch a lot of TV!) and the like but I was very entertained and engaged by the others. Maybe because it's got local flavor. Or maybe it's because she talks about things that I can relate to so much. Or maybe it's because she eats out more than MSO and I do. And on a side note, if she thinks she doesn't have time now to do a lot of things, just wait till she does have kids. But I think it's all these elements that makes it for good reading.

While reading, it kinda made me feel like a K-Drama follower. Still don't know why one would want to subject themselves to crying, dying, lying, and depressing stuff like that; Don't we have enough of that in our lives? And no, I don't have that much time on my hands to read her posts which appeared to have started in July of last year. My excuse is that there was no easy way to navigate the blog and pick out topics that I may be interested in. It's amazing what you can learn about a person by just reading a blog like that. That's not to say that you know a person by reading a blog 'cause I'm not angry all the time. =P

Super Mom Lessons

2007-03-21T05:55:00.000-10:00

In a previous post I had mentioned an article titled "Stop Trying to Be Super Mommy" which was in the January 2007 issue of Parents. I finally read it and I suppose I should be thankful for the forewarning by the mother of two who suffered and recovered from a near-fatal cardiac arrest. Just as she did, I feel like as a mom I do have to do mostly everything and my family comes first.

She writes about her experience and the lifestyle leading to it, and provides five lessons learned that she says applies to every mom cause

No matter how expert you are at the motherhood juggling act, it's impossible to follow through on every responsibility when you're sick or convalescing. We have to let things fall apart just enough so that we can put ourselves back together. And when we let that happen, we discover something truly amazing: Everything is just fine. We learn that we're not indispensable, and while this may bruise our ego, it's a great boon to our health.

For me it's not so much a bruising of the ego but more a situation of getting things done 'cause if I don't do them they probably won't get done even if I ask. =S

Here are the five lessons:

LESSON #1: Adjust Your Standards - Asking for help from your spouse or your friends can be effective, but lowering your standards can be more beneficial.

I'm truly guilty of not allowing TV (only sports occasionally) or the dishes to pile up in the sink. What can I say? There are supposed to be other activities besides TV, and the dishes are needed tomorrow and there won't be time to wash them in the morning.

MSO won't wash the one cup in the sink 'cause he feels like he should wait till there are four so that he can wash them all one time. I feel like it's faster to wash the one and have four clean cups available rather than to wait and wash the four in a rush 'cause there are no clean cups available.

LESSON #2: Figure Out What Really Matters, and Forget the Rest - Does worrying about what your kids are wearing to school, what they have in their lunch box, and what foods are in the cupboards really that important? Are Post-it instruction notes really necessary for your spouse?

It was almost as if I was reading about myself. I try to put the clothes for the next day on the dresser, and pack the bags. This is to help save MSO time in the morning 'cause he probably never leaves at the same time each day (read: he's always late!).

I also put Post-it notes for MSO when I don't have time to do something or to remind him about something.

LESSON #3: Make a New To-Do List - Review your to-do list and decipher what is optional vs. obligatory.

For me there's always a list of things to do. In my mind much of it is required and all I can do is whittle away at it. Naps? Hah! Sometimes. Tired and cranky? Most of the time.

LESSON #4: Don't Freak About Fast Food - Your kids won't be condemned to a life of sloth and girth if they eat from fast-food restaurants.

Never heard that saying about moms keeping the fast-food industry afloat. I thought that MSO was doing that during his lunch time. I'm no Rachael Ray or Martha Stewart, but I'm really trying to discover quick, healthy meals to prepare during our hectic week. As much as I can I won't turn to the Colonel, the pizza guy, and Ronald. Just this past weekend I was the mean mommy who turned down a St. Patrick's Day cookie that was offered.

LESSON #5: Feel the Joy of Being a Mom - When the difference between options and obligations are understood, the tasks that you take on that really do matter can bring great joy.

As much as I worry about so many things as a mother, I do feel that joy when I see the changes as well as the cute and quirky actions. Makes you wanna do it all over again...Hah!

Pet Food Problems!

2007-03-20T05:44:00.000-10:00

Stumbled upon this very important article regarding dog and cat food that are causing some pets to die. Please check your pets' food to make sure that they are not eating any of the "dog food sold throughout North America under 51 brands [or] cat food sold under 40 brands, including Iams, Nutro and Eukanuba. The food was sold under both store and major brand labels at Wal-Mart, Kroger, Safeway and other large retailers." Here is the link to the recall information.

UPDATE (March 23, 2007): Rodent poison found!

ANOTHER UPDATE (April 2, 2007): Pet food recall widens...

YET ANOTHER UPDATE (April 5, 2007): Now pet bisquits!

MSO's Weakness For Shopping

2007-03-19T05:16:00.000-10:00

Whenever we go shopping MSO will most likely utter some words that include tired or exhausted. And that's (usually) not because he didn't get a good night's sleep or because he showed off all his mad skills at basketball. It's because he's mentally tired and/or exhausted from shopping. And this kind of shopping does not take place at manly-man stores such as Lowe's, City Mill, Napa, Sears...You know what I mean.

So it seemed almost fitting that we'd stumble upon the "How to Survive Shopping with Your Wife" by Steve Wilson in the March/April 2007 Ala Moana Shopping Magazine. (I'm one of those that actually takes this magazine and looks at all the pictures of things that I could never buy, and other whatnot in there.) And MSO totally agreed with the pre-shopping prep with the bottled water and energy bars. =S

Husbands, here are your survival tips:

PRE-SHOPPING PREP

* Make like you'll be running a marathon and pack bottled water, energy bars and trail mix. Have you stretched your quads?

* Wear comfy clothes, but don't slob it up too much. Dressing down may inspire her to give you a sneak-attack makeover.

* Arm yourself with distractions: cell phone with games, a book or even office paperwork.

* Before the trip, tell her about at least three items you "desperately need" that she'll have no interest in helping you find. This way, you'll have an airtight excuse to slip away when it's time for her to visit the hosiery section.

SHOPPING SURVIVAL

* Stay on the lookout for any chair, bench or fountain that looks like it could hold your tush when you just can't stand up any longer. Be on constant watch for stores that sell DVDs and gadgets. She'll understand if you'd prefer to cut out for a few minutes rather than join in the quest for "the perfect black top."

* Learn the lingo. "Yes, that's cute," and "No, it doesn't make you look fat," just don't cut it anymore. Watch a couple of makeover shows to bone up on fashion terms. For example, "You have vivid coloring, so you should stick to navy, deep brown, blue, purple and charcoal gray."

* Live it up at the Makai Market Food Court; you've earned that extra helping of ice cream.

SNEAKY METHODS

* Calls to her friends for moral support before making a purchase can drag out the day indefinitely. To save yourself hours of thumb twiddling, hide her phone, or at least drain the batteries.

* "Forget" to empty the trunk (Lawn equipment? Dog crate?) so there's less room for shopping bags. But always remember to carry her bags for her - after all, it's the gentlemanly thing to do.

Famous Means Invincible?

2007-03-13T05:48:00.000-10:00

I don't watch 'Lost' and I don't know him but the comments that Josh Holloway has made regarding HI police and all that famous crap kinda annoys me. Sometimes I do feel like yeah, go catch the real criminals too but whatcha gonna do? And yeah, maybe they are targeted a bit more but I mean, come on! Going 53 in a 35 zone - speeding (Holloway, Monaghan (Twice!), Andrews (Twice!), Somerhalder). Disobeying a police officer (Akinnuoye-Agbaje). Driving without a license (Akinnuoye-Agbaje, Monaghan). No motor vehicle insurance (Perrineau Jr.). Drunken-driving (Rodriguez, Watros). Michelle Rodriquez even had the gall to complain the bracelet "is like a freaking VCR, and why do they care if I drink, what am I gonna do, drink and walk over someone, I have no license." Who does such preposterous things?! Only TV/movie stars who think just because they're famous means they're invincible from the law!!!

Wings Star Revival

2007-03-13T00:44:00.000-10:00

Not new news, at least in showbiz, but it was a little surprising to see Tim Daly heading back to a TV series (Grey's Anatomy) and is 51(!). I think the last thing I saw him in was a CBS series...It was The Fugitive. Oh and the movie Basic with John Travolta and Connie Nielsen. Good movie. Apparently Joe Hackett has been doing a lot since then.

Excerpt From Parents Article About Biting

2007-03-12T05:18:00.000-10:00

MSO and I were fortunate and grateful to be gifted with a subscription of Parents. We need all the help we can! While reading this article about one mother's experience with her little girl, I felt very emotional, more than normal anyway. There are some excerpts which got me reflecting that the mother's experience could be my experience or your experience and that it could be something other than biting as well.

This was my first real-life illustration of some advice I had once heard: Raising kids is like planting seeds from a packet with no picture on it. You have to throw out any ideas about what is going to grow and just tend to the garden the best you can.

The biting problem also taught me that your child's behavior is not necessarily a reflection on you. Whether you're a stay-at-home or working mom, it's all too easy to view your son's or daughter's accomplishments as your own proud achievement -- and their less-than-stellar antics as something that can be blamed on you.

...I still work hard every day to bring out the best in my children and to curb the worst, but I also try to remember that there are limits to what a parent can do.

Can't wait to read "Stop Trying to Be Super Mommy".

Hannibal Hansbrough

2007-03-11T12:18:00.000-10:00

Liked this article about Tar Heel Tyler Hansbrough. Go Heels!

Comb-Over Talk

2007-03-09T12:11:00.000-10:00

The subject of hair somehow came about while chatting with my supervisor (Super K) today. Funny, I forgot how hair came about. I was very surprised to discover he had never heard of the word comb-over. You hear that? That's me patting myself on the back for actually enlightening him with great stuff like comb-over and muffin top. Haha, I can be such a dork.

Anyways, decided to use trusty ole Google to give him a view of the unsightly chaos that is a comb-over. And I don't mean to be mean or wish it upon anyone to get bald, including myself, but there's just something so not right about comb-overs. There was some doubt that a picture of a comb-over would show up after hitting Enter, however, the task was fulfilled and now Super K is able to associate comb-over with what he has seen so many times throughout his wise years but just never knew what they were called.

Writer Melena Z. Ryzik divulges the Divine secrets of the combover brotherhood...

Baby Goodies

2007-03-09T06:35:00.000-10:00

I always thought about making a list like this but never did. Didn't think anyone would benefit from it as most readers are way more experienced parents or in the know more than MSO and I are. Just wanted to provide additional commentary here and maybe add a few more.

The question "Bringing home a new baby?" made me think of a show I used to watch while out on maternity leave. Should've been walking instead of sitting on my fat arse watching TV...

SLEEPSACK

At home: Unlike a blanket, the SleepSack stays on, no matter how much your infant turns in his sleep (that means sounder and longer sleep for baby and you). Part sack, part shirt, it zips from the top down. Baby can wear it over pajamas or by itself.

We actually used this with baby and it was great! Got our's from Toys R Us but I've seen it at other places.

DIAPER RASH OINTMENT

Anytime: A chaffed bottom makes for an uncomfortable (read: crying) baby.

Although diaper rash was not too much of a problem with baby, we did use Burt's Bees Diaper Ointment. 94.65% natural and it has a nice smell.

ONESIES

Anytime: New dad DeMattos loves 'em: "They're great! Unsnap, roll up, change the diaper, good to go. It was like a sleeping bag, or a pocketknife — it's all self-contained and perfect."

Note: You can make them from old T-shirts; buy the snaps at a craft store that sells fabrics.

Who's got time to make them from old T-shirts?! Carter's in Waikele is a favorite to get pretty cheap and very cute looking onesies as well as other outfits. Hand-me-downs are absolutely wonderful too! We're so grateful to the W family for all the hand-me-downs bestowed upon us.

BABY MONITOR WITH VIDEO

At home: Gives you reassurance — and a little more freedom. Since you can keep an eye on baby, you can close the nursery door and don't need to sneak peeks (less noise means baby might sleep longer).

Video does enable you to make sure bedding or clothing doesn't hinder baby's breathing - to just visually check on your precious one - but we didn't get one of those. A monitor of some form is a necessity though. We were able to do chores downstairs and take the dog out while baby slept.

DIAPER WIPES

Anytime: Beyond the titular use, handy for sticky toddler fingers and even to rub off Mom's makeup.

What kind: At home, Chan uses Curity, a plain, dry wipe that's a hospital staple, with water. On the go, it's Pampers Sensitive Baby Wipes.

Note: She finds Curity at Dauterman Medical in 'Aiea.

Although I think we used Curity plain, dry wipes with water in the hospital, the Costco diaper wipes route is a way to go. Diapers and diaper wipes are a good shower and/or baby gift.

PLASTIC BAGS

On the go: To wrap up that leaky baby powder, or carry home that stinky diaper.

What kind: Any zipping-top bag; the more smell-blocking, the better.

We actually tie one of the dog's poop bag dispensers on our diaper bag and it's there if needed. Not zip-topped or smell-blocking (I don't think) but there. Most of the time there's a rubbish can around though.

BABY CARRIER

On the go: Allows you to carry the baby hands-free, safely and comfortably.

What kind: Chan and her friends swear by their BabyBjorn. Chan likes the Air carrier, made of a breathable material, for hot weather like Hawai'i's.

We were able to get a hand-me-down older BabyBjorn version. Didn't have the "breathable material," but still invaluable. Definite necessity!

NURSING PADS

Anytime: Keeps leaks at bay.

What kind: Chan and Nii recommend Lansinoh. Chan also has Medela's washable, reusable pads.

I tried different brands and would also recommend the Lansinoh disposable ones. Not too thick, but absorbent enough and good size. I did buy the Medela washable, reusable pads to use at home.

CLOTH DIAPERS

Anytime: Not just for what you think. "After cleaning baby's bottom with wipes, we use these cloth diapers to softly buff away (and fan away) the last traces of moisture before applying diaper ointment," says Nii. "Getting baby's skin really dry before applying ointment helps prevent diaper rash." Nii also used them as burp cloths, nursing aids, wipes for spills, and impromptu changing pads on the go.
What kind: Some like the padded middle, others like the four-ply.

Note: One dad raves about how useful they are for washing the car.

We used these A LOT thanks to my mom. Not as cloth diapers but primarily as burp cloths and wiping baby up. Don't know how good they are for washing a car though. I would think not good as I suspect they would capture too much dirt/dust/particles which would scratch your car. Certain brands of 100% Made in the USA white towels are supposed to be better for your car.

PORTABLE PLAYPEN

Anytime: Provides a place for baby to sleep/play. Some double as a bassinet/diaper change station.

What kind: Chan's a fan of her Graco Pack 'N Play. ("There are many versions, but the Pooh Days of Hunny at Wal-Mart was less than $80," she noted.)

Note: She liked it so much her parents bought one for when granddaughter visits. "The elevated diaper changer makes it easy on parents' backs without having to spend more money for an actual changing station."

Another much needed part of your arsenal. We were lucky to get two hand-me-down Pack 'N Play. One of them took up residence at my mom's house. The other we used at home in the living room and we even took it to New York to use at the hotel instead of utilizing their probably nasty cribs.

A STURDY DIAPER BAG

On the go: Hands-free storage.

What kind: Dads seem to like the messenger-style, according to the latest baby mags. Moms like over-the-shoulder or "big purse" styles.

Note: Unisex backpacks, such as the one below, were our columnists' choice.

I didn't look into getting a backpack type and ended up purchasing the Lands' End Little Tripper Diaper Bag. No insulated bottle pockets and not a very big bag, hence "Little," but reasonable price and it has served its purpose many times over. Backpacks are always useful though.

A REALLY STURDY STROLLER

On the go: Besides the obvious, can double as a grocery cart when you don't want to wake up baby for a trip down the produce aisle; carries luggage through a busy airport and transports nearly a roomful of toys for play dates.

What kind: Test-drive to see.

Note: Choose for distance, rather than appearance.

We went with a Combi model based on advice and it has been great. One gripe is that the basket on the bottom of the one we got doesn't hold very much and can be hard to access. Gee Why seems to know his strollers...Wanna provide some insights?

RECEIVING BLANKET

Anytime: To swaddle, provide shade or warmth, prop up baby's head, provide a clean place on the floor for them to nap, among others, said Chan.

What kind: Take your pick.

Note: These can go from cheap, soft cotton to cashmere, but "washable" should be your keyword.

Once again, Carter's has good stuff. Can you do the swaddle wrap? I remember Neth saying he was somewhat of a champion wrapper. =)

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Okay, now on to some additions of my own that I can think of at this time that helped us as new parents. These are just from experience...You can comment and provide your own.

DIAPER ORGANIZER

Anything to help keep things organized will get a look from most. And the Dresser Top Diaper Depot was one of them for me. The dresser top has space so why not. It does make diaper changing easier and more convenient by providing everything where they're supposed to be. That's if MSO fills the wipes and diapers when he's supposed to. =S We fill the two removable side bins with ointments, lotions, thermometer, etc.

DRYING STATION

The Complete Drying Station might not be a real necessity but it was very helpful in keeping bottles, nipples, etc. organized outside of our old regular full dish rack. Organization, organization!

DISPOSABLE BIBS

Pampers Pocket Bibsters are also not a real necessity but have made outings a little less messy. On our trip we didn't need to worry about cleaning/staining of regular bibs. Might want to stay away if you're really into using green products.

DISPOSABLE SPOONS

The First Years Take & Toss Spoons (Just the spoons, although the picture shows otherwise, as your baby won't be using forks till much later) are as the site says "affordable enough to treat as disposables, and durable enough to use over and over". We have been using these at home, but are also very useful on trips and outings. Probably not a green product either.

BOOSTER SEAT

As an alternative to a high chair at my mom's house, I purchased a Fisher-Price Healthy Care Booster Seat. It has a three-point harness, a feeding tray that's removable to wash, and portable enough that you can fold it and put it away.

ACTIVITY GYM

I had bought the Discover & Play Activity Gym to entertain and stimulate baby while avoiding the wet licks from the dog. (We asked the doctor about the licking and we were told it's okay.)

INFANT-TO-TODDLER ROCKER

Uncle e and Aunty m gifted baby with the Fisher-Price one. Baby loved this one and would smile and laugh when seated in it while avoiding the wet licks from the dog.

Be sure to add your own as this list can actually be a tool for future parents! =)

Picture Annoyances

2007-03-09T05:34:00.000-10:00

What the f#@* is going on with pictures - posting and viewing - on Blogger lately?! Is a switch to Wordpress really inevitable?

Girls' Day at Elements Hawaii

2007-03-07T05:25:00.001-10:00

I finally made the arrangements to surprise my mom to be a queen for a day (well at least part of it) at Elements Spa & Salon Hawaii. The surprise was not to be though as she received a call confirming her appointment. That's okay. What entailed for the three of us was enough to make up for it.

Subsequent to being met by a very inviting staff and offers for water or tea, we picked out our colors to bedecked in. My mom started with Part I of her two-part spa nail day, the Deluxe Spa Pedicure.

I started (and unfortunately ended) with the regular Spa Pedicure. The whirlpool footbath, albeit not the most quiet, was great! But what my sis and I agreed on was even better was the exfoliation and massage by Joey. That was incredible! She said we have a high tolerance for pain. We already said we would be her repeat clients if the opportunity comes around again.

While my mom continued on with Part II, the Deluxe Spa Manicure, my sis started her Spa Pedicure - her first! She normally doesn't do the nail thing but I got her to just try and experience it. And what better way than this, right?

I was going to post a picture of my Blue My Mind-painted toes but the blog just wouldn't upload my ugly feet. Really.

Something has happened to my mom's nail polish though on both her hands and feet (how come?!), but it was a nice day followed by an early dinner, and we hope to experience Elements again.

Oxymoron for Supplements

2007-02-27T12:55:00.000-10:00

The title reads "Antioxidant vitamins are bad for your health". That grabs your attention, no? Amazing sometimes what timing the news around the world can have with occasional discussion among family members. Just the other day there was some discussion about the amount and types of vitamins/pills that one family member is taking and the relationship that has with the way he's been feeling. While we hope taking all those pills is not the reason, we have to wonder. Are all the different supplements really good for you? The author of the article presents the findings of a study published by The Journal of the American Medical Association that reveals the use of antioxidant supplements increases mortality. Advice given - eat five portions of fresh fruit and vegetables a day (Tough for us!), and stay away from the pills. How many pills do you take a day?

Top 10 Hollywood Rich Kids

2007-02-27T12:01:00.000-10:00

Forbes magazine ranks Hollywood's top-earning stars under the age of 21 for 2006. Dang. Where were you at age 10? Sure not worrying about what you're going to wear to the Oscars. Didn't realize Amanda Bynes was that young too.

1. Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, who turn 21 June 13, $40 million

2. Daniel Radcliffe, age 17, $13 million

3. Lindsay Lohan, age 20, $6 million

4. War of the Worlds veteran Dakota Fanning, age 13, $4 million

5. What I Like About You star Amanda Bynes, age 20, $2.5 million

6. Heroes star Hayden Panettiere, age 17, $2.5 million

7. High School Musical star Vanessa Anne Hudgens, age 18, $2 million

8. Little Miss Sunshine Oscar nominee Abigail Breslin, age 10, $1.5 million

9. Everybody Hates Chris actor Tyler James Williams, age 14, $1.2 million

10. "Too Little, Too Late" singer Joanna "JoJo" Levesque, age 16, $1 million

Stamp Rate Hike

2007-02-27T05:22:00.000-10:00

Looks like postal prices are going up again. The postage rates last went up in January 2006. There's also recommendation for a new "forever" stamp that would sell for the first-class rate and remain valid even if the rates go up in the future, thereby eliminating the need to buy small 2-cent type of stamps.

For example, if the 41-cent rate takes effect, forever stamps would sell for 41 cents. If rates later climbed to 45 cents or more, the price of the forever stamp would also go up at the counter or machine, but those purchased before the change would still be valid to mail a letter.

Under the proposal, sending a 2-ounce letter would actually decrease from 63 cents to 58 cents but mailing "odd-shaped" items may result in a 17-cent surcharge as they cannot be processed using letter-sorting machines.

The matter now goes back to the board of governors of the Postal Service, which can accept the recommendations or ask for reconsideration. If accepted, the new rates could take effect as soon as May.

Interesting example given:

Each penny increase in the price of a gallon of gasoline costs the Postal Service $8 million, and it cannot simply add a fuel surcharge to its rates.

Quotes From The Academy Awards

2007-02-26T12:07:00.000-10:00

Wanted to watch the show but was busy. Was able to catch up with the goings on and get my daily dose of entertainment lowdown. These were deemed to be ten of the best quotes from the 79th show where celebrities dress up to look very pretty and handsome, and oh yeah, find out who takes home the gold statuettes.

"This is the only naked man that will ever be in my bedroom."
– Melissa Etheridge, clutching her Oscar and reveling in her win for Best Song backstage
Did you know she and her partner, Tammy Lynn Michaels, are 13 years apart?

"I noticed everybody's having a hard time with the Oscar and what to do with it. So I came up with this backstage. It's an Ellen Oscar Bjorn. When you go to the parties later, you'll have your hands free to shake hands or drink."
– Host Ellen DeGeneres, revealing her strategy for carrying around the heavy award at the post-show parties
That is pretty inventive. Being able to use a Bjorn in its familiar way was indispensable for MSO and me.

"Even though I honestly did not plan on doing this, I guess with a billion people watching it's as good a time as any."
– Vice President Al Gore, pretending to announce his bid for the White House in 2008 after Leonardo DiCaprio egged him on
Whatever. From politician to documenter.

"I was just backstage with Jack Nicholson and Vice President Al Gore drinking. I don't think he's running for president. My apologies."
– George Clooney, completing Al Gore's faux candidacy announcement
Jack Nicholson is bald now.

"Could you double check the envelope?"
– Martin Scorsese, receiving his Best Director trophy after being passed over for the award five times prior
The critics are already at it regarding the Best Picture win for "The Departed".

"So now we're here to present another award for something short."
– Jaden Smith, 8, joking with presenter Abigail Breslin about having to present the Best Animated Short Film and Best Live Action Short Film awards
Looks like a young, little Will with hair.

"Helen Mirren and an Oscar will be coming home with me."
– Will Ferrell, John C. Reilly and Jack Black, singing about netting a future Oscar and seducing Best Actress winner Helen Mirren
Ookaay.

"Sound editing is very much like sex. It's usually done alone, late at night, surrounded by electronic gadgets."
– Steve Carell, presenting Best Sound Editing with Little Miss Sunshine costar Greg Kinnear
Funny guy.

"Dame Judi Dench is not here tonight. She's having 'knee surgery' on her eyes."
– Ellen DeGeneres, jokingly explaining the Best Actress nominee's absence from the ceremony
I'm definitely becoming convinced that I am really slow 'cause I didn't really get this. Anyone?

"Visual effects: They enable us to see aliens, experience other universes, move in slow motion or watch spiders climbing high above the city landscape. For me, just a typical weeknight in the mid '90s."
– Robert Downey, Jr., presenting the award for Best Visual Effects and referencing his drug-addled past
This one made me laugh. Glad to see he's doing well. Rumor is that Naomi Watts is impregnated by Liev Schreiber.

Some High School Basketball

2007-02-23T05:25:00.000-10:00

Had read an article about Miah Ostrowski the other day and kinda interested to see how he plays. OC-16 is televising the Championship game at 2000. No 'Iolani this year huh?

Incorrect Archiving

2007-02-22T12:16:00.000-10:00

Damn posts are incorrectly being archived. Did a search through Blogger's Help page and the Blogger Help Group and it appears that others have experienced the same thing. Supposedly it's being worked on.

Older But New Music

2007-02-21T05:45:00.000-10:00

As Gee Why did a few weeks ago, I got some music this past weekend (along with all the free stuff) but I didn't buy them as I used my iTunes cards that I got during the holidays. Sweet!

Unlike the Norah Jones one which I got also, these two are dated 2005. Still good though.

Wonder If It Works

2007-02-20T12:59:00.000-10:00

Saw this in a magazine. Supposed to prepare your first "baby" for arrival of the second one that suddenly appears. At least I think that's what our first one - the dog - must've thought. We tried exposing her to babies and also did the blanket thing where you take home a blanket that baby used. We also made my mom carry baby when we first got home. Those things might've worked then. She's still adjusting now to having our attention shared. She'll bring her toys over and will actually fling it in our face when we're sitting or lying down on the floor. Okay, I get it. Sheesh.

Tiny Pen Baby

2007-02-20T05:34:00.000-10:00

Wow. Amazing.

FAT Discovery

2007-02-17T15:27:00.000-10:00

After purchasing music through iTunes I've been getting the message that asks if you want to back up your music. Been holding off on doing it but I finally decided to back everything up to my external hard drive (EHD). This is an EHD that I used to back up data when I had my PC. Anyways, I just discovered that my EHD is read-only from the Mac! After some reading it appears that Mac OS X can read and write to FAT32 but can only read NTFS which my EHD is formatted in. Great. So you think okay I guess I'll take that stupid step back and format the EHD with FAT32 just in case I need to read that HD with a PC. But now you find out that with FAT32, files cannot be larger than 2GB and there are naming limitations. And if you format your HD with HFS+, which Mac OS X can read natively, you won't be able to read or write with a PC unless you purchase some type of application like MacDrive. Argh! So what is the best way people go about storing and sharing files between platforms?

For The Mothers

2007-02-15T15:43:00.000-10:00

This is a great article about how to be a happier mom.

Being the mom of a young child (especially one under 3) is rich and rewarding, but also a real strain on your mood. "Moment to moment, you may be exhausted, frustrated, sometimes angry," says Peter Ubel, M.D., a professor of medicine and psychology at the University of Michigan. "You may be squabbling with your spouse more. You have more negative emotions." The time you spend taking care of your child may not even be the high point of your day.

8 Ways to Focus On The Positive:

Admit when you're stressed
Get enough sleep
(Re)consider your priorities
Go with the flow
Savor the moment
Take the long view
Reconnect with your spouse
Say thanks

I won't ever be the hottest mom in America, but I've got to try these tips 'cause I can be the most grouchiest mom in America. =( It's a little comforting to know that I have some reason to feel that way. Thanks.

The Color of Money

2007-02-15T05:58:00.000-10:00

Oops, I mean the color of roses. Valentine's Day is over but there is still some discussion about roses going on. Specifically the color of roses. Not knowing much about the meaning of the colors, I did a quick search and found the following from The Voice of Women:

3/4 of men say they would love to get flowers and most women love floral gifts as well. Now here is something you may not know: Color Talks! Although it is commonly accepted that all roses convey warmth and affection, the person receiving them may know and understand the meaning of roses colors and the symbolic message conveyed. It would be nice to insure that you are communicating the right message to that special person. Read on to find the meaning of the color of roses!

Black roses stand for the color of Death. Death of certain “set” ideas, thoughts, and beliefs. It signifies a major change in the future.

Purple roses stand for enhancement, magnification, opulence, majesty and glory and mean I will always love you. Lavender roses symbolize caution and the need to proceed slowly and carefully. Lavender roses also indicate a need for discretion but it is also becoming widely accepted as representing love at first sight and enhancement. Burgundy roses mean unconscious beauty. Lilac represents the first emotions of love.

Blue roses stand for fantasies, hoping for miracles, new opportunities and possibilities.

Orange roses indicate enthusiasm, desire and fascination. The orange rose says, "I am proud of you!"

Coral roses signify desire.

Peach roses signify desire, anticipation, sincere appreciation and optimism for the future. Pale peach roses are a symbol of modesty.

Pink roses stand for elegance, gracefulness, refinement, gentility, style and poetic romance but are combined with fun and light-heartedness. It is the rose of sweet thoughts and thank yous. Pink roses also signify gratitude, sympathy and appreciation. Dark pink stands for thank you, appreciation and gratitude. Light pink roses convey admiration, sympathy, gentleness, grace, gladness, joy, friendship and sweetness. The combination of red roses and pink roses stands for strong romance and passion. Dark Pink roses are symbolic of thankfulness while pale pink roses are a symbol of joy and grace.

Red roses symbolize romance, beauty, respect, courage, passionate love and unity and are the most popular of all roses. Red roses also stand for the creative spirit of love, the true love stronger than thorns. True red is the Lover’s rose. Amaranth red means long-standing desire, Cardinal red means sublime desire. Carmine means false desire (not true desire). Fiery red means flames of passion. Red rosebuds are meant to reflect the beauty of a young lover and mean “pure and lovely”. Red roses in full bloom say, "I love you still." Red & White roses together signify unity or togetherness. They are given when facing a challenging life event or to celebrate a strengthening relationship. Red and yellow blended means gaiety and loyalty, jovial and happy feelings.

White roses represent unity, loyalty, reverence, humility, love stronger than death, sincerity, purity, silence and innocence as well as youthfulness. Sometimes called the "flower of light," the white rose also means spiritual love and anticipation of happiness. White roses can also be used to highlight the message of the other rose colors. White (Bridal) roses symbolize a happy love. White rosebuds can also signify girlhood or “too young to love.”

Yellow roses signify strong feelings of pure joy, gladness, happiness and friendship, but were once used to convey jealousy. Friendship is the main meaning of the yellow rose but it also signifies familiar love and domestic happiness. Yellow roses also symbolize fun and freedom. Today, the yellow rose is used to embrace a new beginning, apologize or express sympathy, and to say, "remember me" , "I am sorry', or "I care." Yellow roses are appropriate for marking the beginning of a new life together or for starting all over again. A Yellow rose with red tip indicates friendship falling in love.

Pastel or pale blends represent sociability and friendship. And the meaning of roses in mixed colors - 'you're everything to me'. A mixed-color bouquet carries all of the meanings of each individual rose.

Rosebuds symbolize beauty, youth and a heart innocent of love or: “You are young and beautiful.” Withered white roses can mean either of two things: fleeting beauty or “you made no impression.” A withered red rose means "I would rather die...our love is over." Hybrid tea roses say “I’ll remember you always”. A single rose stands for simplicity and means you are the only one. In full bloom, it means “I love you” or “I love you still.” It can also symbolize love at first sight. Two roses taped or wired together to form a single stem represent a commitment, an engagement or coming marriage. They represent the mutual feeling that the bond between the two of you is inseperable and nothing can come between you. Six roses means I miss you. Seven roses signifies infatuation. A dozen roses means "I love you" and denotes gratitude for your presence. Eighteen roses means "I am sorry." Twenty-five roses mean congratulations. Fifty roses means unconditional love. A full rose placed over two buds signifies secrecy and a crown made of roses stands for reward or virtue.

So there it is, all the meanings, (well most of them) of the color of roses! The next time you give or receive roses, you will know what their colors mean. Perhaps you will find out something someone may have been trying to tell you all along or you may tell someone something without saying a word and all because Color Talks!

Wow.

Happy Valentine's Day!

2007-02-14T05:17:00.000-10:00

"Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit." -- Kahlil Gibran

No TV Star Status

2007-02-11T12:50:00.000-10:00

Although I'm definitely not living the TV star life, I had the opportunity to sit ~~pretty close to~~ next to the stars at the Louisiana Tech game on Saturday thanks to Gee Why and his Pulpconnection connections.

View from our seats was clear with no atama obstructing the sights which somehow happens to me a lot (sarcasm).

One sight that I did note was that there were men sitting together (closely I might add),

although there were many empty seats nearby to give that one manly man seat spacing. Hmmm.

Having no problems with her seat is Minna Sugimoto. We thought about moving next to her. Too bad her canine son Joey couldn't be there.

Shirt launching time. Hey, we're over here!

Almost didn't recognize Alika Smith.

Halftime score.

Recruiting for the University of Hawai`i begins.

Oh look, Minna is joined by Howard Dashefsky and an unfeatured news guy perhaps?

Balloon Brigade. Didn't see KT aka Balloon Master as he was/is supposedly on travel.

Look at the ogling. =)

Final score.

Driving home safely was not to difficult that night but driving home quickly was. I probably don't know the best route to exit out of there so it took almost 1/2 hour to get home! But it was fun. Thank you Gee Why and The Greatest Legal Mind Ever (Sorry)!

Distracted

2007-02-09T00:42:00.000-10:00

Supposed to be doing my year end report but wandered into some "Thoughts on Music". Some endearing thoughts...

Living The TV Star Life

2007-02-07T12:29:00.000-10:00

We got baby's Shape-O® Toy aka "classic rattle, shape-sorter and counting toy," and my Open House™ Chip ’N Dip bowl that "provides easy access to dips and salsa". Tori Spelling just had a coed baby shower sponsored by Tupperware, and she and her husband (Who is this guy and what does he do?! He's in almost every picture with her.) are pictured here with those items. And yes, that Tupperware. So I'm feeling like a TV star. Okay, maybe not. I don't have any TV shows or never starred in Beverly Hills 90210 which I have to say MSO did watch religiously. =)

Are You Really Gonna Use It?

2007-02-06T12:48:00.000-10:00

A pet peeve that I have in the abode is not with the pet (for the most part) but with MSO and his ability to keep things, rather little bits of things around till it goes bad, mold grows on it, it collects into an almost unmanageable pile, whatever, and I find it.

Take this darn bottle of Listerine or lack of it. It was in the cabinet in this state for who knows how long. I asked him if he's going to use it. He says he is. I'm speechless...almost.

Another thing he's left bits of is food which he keeps saying he'll eat later but might result in a satiate bird. But not before they collect mold in the refrigerator. Cleaning out the refrigerator has become a regular chore for me every now and then. Just throw it away!

LATEST: This is a perfect example of the itty bitty bits of food that MSO just can't seem to finish 'cause he's full, and will even go so far as to put it in a container and into the refrigerator...to sit and sit and sit and sit and sit there till I end up throwing it out.

Might've Been The First One

2007-01-24T12:17:00.000-10:00

If you've ever had a stomach virus where puking and/or output from the other end is involved, then you will definitely sympathize with what MSO and I went through these past few days. It really might've been my first stomach virus or the first in a very long, long time. We probably got a bout of it from baby who may have gotten it from the sitter's. Don't think I puked that much when I had morning sickness. Unpleasant, violent, and wicked! Diet so far has consisted of toast, crackers, and water. Even prison inmates eat better than that...but maybe really shouldn't. But that's a whole 'nother gripe. In reality world I just wanted to curl up and say goodnight but it wouldn't be as the just cleaned bathroom kept calling to see us in agony. What made it even more challenging, so to speak, was that baby was home with us. How do two ill parents take care of their child when they can barely take care of themselves?! It was tough even with the in-laws helping out for a few hours. Beware everyone out there, beware...

How To Keep Your Pet Healthy

2007-01-09T12:18:00.000-10:00

According to Dr. Becker, these are the "top seven things you can do to help your beloved pets live happier, healthier, fuller lives":

+ Dental care — Periodontal disease is the most commonly diagnosed problem in veterinary medicine and causes serious health problems. Sure, we want kissable breath, but more importantly, by taking good care of our pets' mouths (regular brushing, special dental diets, regular professional care) they'll live 15 percent longer, which is an average of two years. See www.avds-online.org.

+ Battle obesity — 50 percent of American pets are overweight or obese. We're killing them with kindness as these pudgy pets suffer from increased risk of diabetes, heart disease, joint problems, cancer and skin problems. Keep your pet at its ideal body weight, and it will live 15 percent longer, amazingly, another two years of life! See www.petfit.com.

+ Socialization and behavioral training — Dogs that play well with other animals, like people, are well-behaved and are going to live a full life. Take them to socialization and basic obedience classes; consider these lifesaving classes, they're that important. See www.animalbehavior.net.

+ Feed the need and the breed — It's impossible for the average pet owner to weed through the tantalizing pet food ads and competing claims to know what to feed pets. Only your veterinarian is trained to look at your pet's age, breed, lifestyle, health status and emerging risks to determine the one food that should be in its bowl. Nothing you can do will affect your pet's longevity as much as what you feed it; and don't forget to keep pets on the slim side. Ask your veterinarian for a specific nutrition recommendation.

+ Parasite control — When I started practicing, external parasite control (for fleas and ticks) was like chemical warfare with dips, bombs, sprays, powders and collars. Treatment for internal parasites was hit and miss, and we saw many wormy dogs and dogs on death's doorstep from heartworm disease. Today, parasite control is simple, safe and effective with powerful once-a-month topical applications and pills that seemingly kill everything but the pet! Experts now recommend lifelong, year-round parasite control for all pets, regardless of geographic location, indoor vs. outdoor, etc. See www.capcvet.org.

+ Twice-yearly wellness visits — Pets age faster than humans, can't tell you when and where it hurts, and by nature hide their illnesses. I recommend people take their pets to the veterinarian for twice yearly wellness visits, during which time the veterinary healthcare team will do a complete physical, offer help with behavior problems, boost vaccines if necessary, alert you to emerging health problems and answer any questions. See www.npwm.com.

+ Let the vet run the tests — While a comprehensive physical exam is always the cornerstone of great medicine, veterinarians often recommend advanced diagnostics (blood work, urinalysis, fecal exams, radiographs, ultrasounds, skin scrapings, etc.) to identify health concerns before they become symptomatic and to provide you with a more accurate diagnosis and treatment plan. When your vet asks for permission to do tests, it's not a "want" it's a "need," so say yes. Because pets can't talk, veterinarians need the additional information to look past the obvious to catch things early on when they are more cost-effective to treat, in a period of grace, before they cause unnecessary pain or worse.

History Weekend

2007-01-08T12:27:00.000-10:00

During the last weekend of 2006 at a relative's house, we were presented with these objects from the past and had to guess what they are. Most of us were dumbfounded. Even the older people. See if you can guess what they are...

Then on New Year's Day we took my obaasan to a location from her past so that she could see what it looked like today and to see if she recalled anything. She told us that these leaves were used when steaming some food. The following are some commemorative objects that we encountered while touring the area.

Not quite as vast a memorial as the Arizona Memorial but this one is also a reminder of the devastating happenings back in 1941.

She mentioned the Clipper even before seeing this one. Wow, great memory.

Happy New Year!

2007-01-01T13:10:00.000-10:00

As we make our way into another year, one thing we'll leave behind is a round of golf played before Christmas at Turtle Bay Resort. We played at the Arnold Palmer Course just as Wayne's World did back in April but most of us were not really as impressed with the course especially for the amount that kama`aina pay. Could it be a downward spiral of condition in just 8 months?

In any case there was a downward spiral in MSO's game partly due to both of his shoes breaking during play. At the end of the round both feet were in slippers and his head was lowered in defeat.

Both my sis and I reveled in victory while the sun set amongst the trees. Although I had a high score as usual, it was an overall somewhat great day of driving, and beating MSO can't hurt right? Sorry...

The path to a new year has arrived and I hope to have fun with family and friends, not dwell too much on the little things (including things that MSO does to rile me up), lose a bunch of weight that has become too comfortable residing on me, and other things to just try and enjoy life. Everyone take care and have a happy 2007!

An iPod Kind Of Holiday

2006-12-26T12:50:00.000-10:00

CC Bowls!

2006-12-21T11:48:00.000-10:00

Bet you never thought you'd see this name hanging under the crappy, grungy lights of LB? She apparently bowled a 711 series - a great feat. Now if you're still reading this and thinking that this is "The" Cindy, mole on her face Cindy, then I'll put your mind at ease by saying that it isn't. Someone actually has the same name in The Aloha State. But I want to also add that this woman does not look at all like "The" Cindy. 'Nuff said.

What's Going On At...

2006-12-20T11:37:00.000-10:00

The Town Center of Mililani? More parking?

Alright, based on further investigation, read that The Bus is building a transit center along Mehe'ula Parkway and they are loaning a small portion of their parking lot while the construction is underway. Will post anyway for non-Mililanians or even Mililanians.

The Ascent Of An iPod

2006-12-19T11:58:00.000-10:00

To: AAG
Merry Christmas!
From: AAG

Got it while the after Thanksgiving sale was going on (with free laser engraving) and it has been fun. Would've posted sooner but I been spending so much time transferring music from my CDs and even buy, buy, buying new music! Like I said before, it can be dangerous by just clicking away. I'm even more tempted to take MSO's loose change to get iTunes credit. Beware of your change y'all! ([sic] Britney-esque) Even watched this show and not unexpected but can I just say 'raunchy'? I did find myself wanting to see what happens in the next show though. =S So guys, what happened in the next show?

Bottom Feeder

2006-12-11T12:37:00.000-10:00

NOUN: 1. A fish or other animal that feeds on the bottom of a body of water. 2. One that feeds low on the food chain; a scavenger. 3. Slang a. An opportunist who profits from the misfortunes of others: “The frazzled, adrenaline-pumped tabloid newshounds [in the movie] are the bottom feeders of contemporary journalism” (Entertainment Weekly, May 18, 1994). b. A low or despicable person.

That's me. I remembered to make my picks this past week late Thursday morning after deciding earlier in the week that I still had time to do them. However, with no capability to access sports-related sites, I scrambled to make it home during lunch to do them, not knowing whether or not it was still too late (is it?). Just my luck to find that our Internet connection is down. S4!7!!! No time to troubleshoot and no time to go somewhere else. Oh the stupid dedication to just not be last place. What a damn sinking feeling. I'll be bringing my money to buy the appetizers along with Wayne's World for you blokes in spite of my tremendous disappointment.

Chocolate Chip Cookies

2006-12-10T10:07:00.000-10:00

I was looking through a magazine and saw an ad for Nestle Toll House Swirled Morsels and thought that would be something I'd like to try, either by making cookies with or by a taste test. Okay maybe not the taste test as the fat AAG doesn't need it. So I decided to share this discovery with MSO and in turn discovered that he did not know what morsels are! He is the ultimate representative of a non-baker but I thought at least he'd know what morsels are and he loves chocolate chip cookies (i.e., Chips Ahoy). What happened to Home Economics at RHS?! Oh so sad...

Great Tips

2006-12-06T12:33:00.000-10:00

Now the title for the section with this link says 'Pro' but that could be perceived many ways. I am definitely not a 'Pro' when it comes to Apple products (or anything for that matter), and I don't think I'll ever be a 'Pro' when it comes to Apple products, but I almost feel like a 'Pro' stumbling upon this Mac OS X Tips Archive. I found the tips that I've read thus far to be very entertaining and at the same time very useful. In fact, other articles and commentary that I've read on their site has made me smile or give a quiet giggle. So you don't always need yearbook pictures for laughter 'cause you can go to Apple to get some. Or rather you can just go to the iTunes store and buy your laughter. MSO has got an arare container and milk carton full of coins. Where are those Coinstar machines?

Spoken By A Man

2006-12-05T00:49:00.000-10:00

Now this guy says men have a bigger problem with cheating and provides insight as to why men do what they do. So ladies (or guys), here are the ~~excuses~~ explanations:

* To Fulfill His Biology: You know the old anthropological tale. A man's main job, besides killing the saber-tooth, is to spread his seed in order to ensure the survival of his genetic legacy. It's a man's biology to want to wander. Does that mean he should, or that he can't help it? Of course not. But it does mean that a man is going to have strong-extremely strong-biological urges to knock on the doors of neighboring huts. I have had this argument/discussion/conversation with dozens of men and women: Are men predestined to cheat? My answer is no, they're not-despite their biology. But often times, they do have to fight it. Especially after a pitcher and two shots of Jack.

* To Get the Attention: News flash: Sure, some guys cheat because, well, maybe the sexual frequency has slowed a bit, and maybe hot-and-heavy happens at home about as often as Rob Schneider gets nominated for an Oscar. But the truth is that plenty of men who are having regular sex with their partner are also having sex with someone else. Why? Because cheating isn't just about the sex. Just as a woman who cheats may be seeking more affection than what she's getting at home, a man often cheats because he's seeking the attention that he no longer gets at home. Part of the allure of the mysterious woman isn't just to find out what she looks like naked; it's that the woman showers the man with flirtations, with seduction, with advances that make him feel like he's worthy of more than just fixing dents in the drywall.

* To Get Out: I know lots of guys who simply don't have the strength to end it. They may try ("I'm just not happy"), or they may take other tactics to drive a woman away. A lot of guys simply have trouble breaking off relationships because they don't want to be perceived as that bad guy, the jerk, the insensitive lout who ended something good. So they tiptoe around the issue in hopes that she'll get so frustrated that she'll back out first. Well, if that doesn't work, then a man knows that the only way out is to commit the relationship sin that drives a woman away for good. It's not right, but it's what happens.

* To Change Up His Play List: Think about what's on your iPod. You have your favorite songs you play over and over, but every once in a while, you're in the mood to hear something you haven't played in a long time. You don't need to hear it but once every month or so, but still, you appreciate the changeup. Relationships need to be like good iPods lists. You're comfortable with your routine and you like your routine, but it's always nice to change things up. What men really want in relationships (and what I suspect women also want) is to be able to take comfort in the routine of a long-term commitment, as long as there are some surprises that make it feel like a new relationship every once in a while. In order to keep the relationship strong, you've got to change the songs every once in a while. That goes for in the bedroom and out.

Wow, even an article about cheating can incorporate an iPod. Nice.

What Trends Are You Ready To See Gone?

2006-12-04T12:03:00.000-10:00

I was reading a blog post about trends from 2006 that people would like to leave behind as we head into the New Year, and thought...Well, I'm still thinking about what I'd like to see gone. I'm not exactly a trendsetter, but one trend I do want to see gone is the trend of being at the bottom of the Pick'em contest. Another would probably be too much exposed muffin top, and too much exposed celebrities and their private parts. We see trends come, go, and come back again, but what trends are you bored with and don't want to see in 2007?

Invisible Student

2006-12-04T05:49:00.000-10:00

, unpopular, and fat girl. That was (and still is kind of) me. I hated the elementary through high school years because of stupid things like this. I probably hated preschool too but my unconscious repressed memory won't allow me to remember. Unlike MSO who has fond childhood memories of ~~not so smart~~ hilarious shenanigans at school and then some, I have, for the most part, disgust for school day memories. And like the article says, "Girls can be brutal"! But the shameless, malicious, and barbaric boys were just as bad. I remember getting teased even in intermediate school by this one ~~guy~~ loser who I did see later in high school and had ballooned in weight. So now the goal is to instill as much good morals and values in our child who I hope has a very limited exposure to the type of negativity that can arise in the school environment. Here we go...

Crisp Attire

2006-11-27T05:30:00.000-10:00

The line below was seen on a holiday party invitation. Never seen it before. Can anyone shed some light?

Dress: Aloha Crisp

Chronic Candy

2006-11-27T05:26:00.000-10:00

Candy is already something that's not good for you but now there's Chronic Candy! Guess such kind has been around awhile but I've heard it contains essential hemp oil and is illegal for military personnel to ingest as products made with hemp seed and hemp seed oil may contain an active ingredient of marijuana that is detectable under drug testing programs. Now don't give in to peer pressure when your friend gives you a lollipop. Sheesh.

Much Anticipated Music

2006-11-21T05:02:00.000-10:00

Latest Gadgets For Baby (Or Parents?)

2006-11-17T11:03:00.000-10:00

Bob Revolution - Sweet comfy ride for baby...Sometimes we wish we were sitting there

Boon's Flo - Mom loves this as it protects baby from the hard shower spout

Fisher-Price Workin' Town Railway with a bonus of a water tower, steam engine, and train car - Dad enjoying it more than baby, and dog playing Godzilla

Some Initial Discoveries

2006-11-17T05:05:00.000-10:00

Actually spent more than half an hour on the iMac yesterday and discovered that iPhoto is not very flexible when it comes to creating your own custom photo card (or at least it appears so based on my inexperience using the software). They do give you some nice templates and you can even order some with the click of a button (or several), but I could not create dimensions of any sort and I could not find a way to use more than one photo, etc. So I made my way to CompUSA 'cause I had this pretty old gift card that may or may not expire and decided to buy what I sort of know already. But before I did (and it must have been kind of funny), I was circling the PC software area looking for the dang thing. A person had asked me if I needed help before I had started circling but I made like a man and said I didn't need his help. (Haha) Little did I realize that the Mac software was in the area where the music, playing from multiple iPod nano, was blasting. Decided to forgo the Parallels software for now as I ~~don't want MSO hogging the computer using his Windows apps~~ would like to experience the iMac without Windows apps.

I also came to a realization that I probably won't be able to use the fonts on the font CDs that I had for my PC. So I picked up a couple of Mac font CDs. I can be a font freak and love this one particular font that you may have noticed I use on things. I know you can download them but they were staring at me, pleading for me to buy them, and I figure I'll make good use of them like the other CDs I've had and used for years now.

And just a side note: CompUSA has got to get a better way of checking a gift card balance. I called a 1-800 number and pressed some numbers before speaking to a live person. That wouldn't be so bad if a person was available 24/7 but no(!) you have to call at certain times. WTF?! For a computer store to not have an automated way to check a card balance is very surprising to me.

Plug For Shortgirl Cookies

2006-11-03T05:44:00.000-10:00

Doing anything on Saturday, November 4? If not (or even if you are), how about making some time to head out to Aliiolani Elementary School's Season's Best Craft & Gift Fair. Our friend has started a new business baking hand-crafted, designer cookies. (She's working on her Web site though.) She'll be selling her edible creations at the Fair from 0900 to 1430. Admission is free and she'll be just one of 200 vendors selling various crafts and gift items.

Aliiolani Elementary School is located on the corner of 6th & Waialae Avenue across from Kaimuki Toyota. Parking is available on the school grounds and on the streets around the area.

Some samples of what this talented designer can do follows. Doesn't the Short Dogs look familiar?

Good Oral Care For Dogs

2006-11-02T05:33:00.000-10:00

Important information regarding doggie dental disease. MSO and I better start brushing her teeth more 'cause that hound-halitosis can be stinky too. =(